Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Relationship Test!

If you are in a relationship with someone and you do not see a future should you break up with them? If so, how do you know when to break up? How long should you stay with them after you realize that there is no future? Do you just say "Uhhh look, I don't see you in my future...so you gots to go?" I'm just asking.



Questionaire:

1. Can you see yourself with them for the rest of your life? (through the wrinkles and all)

2. Are they wifey/husband material?

3. Can they be a great parent for your kids or a complete slacker?

4. Can you love them at their absolute worst? Can they love you at your worst?

5. Can you plan things together and actually agree?

6. Do they want to go to heaven? (If not break up...NOW)

7. Do you trust them?

8. What would you do?


Peace, Love & Glitter ~
XoXo
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5 comments:

  1. MeghanApril 7, 2011 at 11:21 AM

    Haha! I love this! I made my boyfriend read it! And we were able to say yes to all of the answers haah so theres still hope haah! I love number 6 though! "Break up now" haha your funny! But your blog is awesome! I love reading it! Keep up the good work girl!

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  2. Samone Davis April 7, 2011 at 6:47 PM

    Pahahaha that's so cute Meg!! Your bf is a keeper then ;) & Awwwwe, thanks girl! keep reading, your my motivation :) I'm heading to yours right now.

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  3. Jocelyn G.April 11, 2011 at 4:32 PM

    Your blog really brings our your personality, Samone! I love this survey. Number 6 was very funny, and I do agree if the person you are dating does not want to go to Heaven then you should not be dating them in the first place. However, I committed a big no-no, and I have been dating a non-believer for almost 2 years now. He is very marriage material, and we talk about it, but the fact that he is not a believer is causing some issues and I am hoping to work on it. The story is too long to post here, but maybe one day I'll make a blog about it or something haha. Anyways, my point is that there is also a chance people can change. My best friend and I have been dealing with the exact same issue. Her boyfriend was agnostic and respected her for her beliefs, but he did not want anything to do with them in his own life. She told him there was not going to be any marriage if he did not believe. I swear to you with God as my witness, a miracle occurred. Last night she texted me, after attending church as per usual with him, and she said: "He got saved tonight!" I cried as soon as I read her text. It was something we had been laboring in prayer over for about 2 years, and finally he rose his hand as the question was asked and accepted. And he genuinely accepted, not because he was afraid of losing her - it was for him personally. I am not saying Christians should date non-believers, it is hard and I am living proof of that! I never realized it before. However, I am saying that God works in mysterious ways and, regardless, He performs miracles and uses us to touch the hearts of others no matter what :) Her story gives me hope, but prayer would definitely be appreciated.

    Jocelyn

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  4. UnknownApril 11, 2011 at 6:49 PM

    If you're having fun with each other, stick with it. There's no rush. If you're not happy with where the relationship is or where it's going, kick them to the curb. No sense in wasting time.

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  5. Samone Davis April 16, 2011 at 7:30 PM

    Thank you so much Jocelyn. Wow, prayer surely changes things! That's amazing.

    Haha straight to the point Jose'...I agree 1,000,000%! But of course I would 'kick them to the curb in a NICE way...bad enough you're dumping them lol...:/

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